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From a Boy Without a Father to the Man Who Found Love! Written for Her, Remembered by You! I don’t know when you’ll read this. Maybe one day when you’re older, sitting with your mother and asking about how we met. Or maybe you’ll find it in my notebooks or stored safely among the memories we’ve kept. However you come across it, I want you to read it slowly and with your heart. This is the story of your father. A story about how I found your mother. And how everything in my life changed from the moment she entered it. I grew up without a father. That one truth shaped much of who I became. I didn’t have someone to teach me what being a man meant. I didn’t have a strong hand to hold or a voice that said I was enough. I learned about life by watching others and falling down and getting back up alone. I knew pain early. I knew silence deeply. I knew what it felt like to sit with questions no one could answer. Why me. Why us. Why this life.   But those same hardships made me strong...

This is Your Father and This is one of My Stories, Aabbo

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This is Your Father and This is one of My Stories, Aabbo My dear children, today I want to share my story with you, a story of resilience and determination as I built a life from nothing. I hope you draw strength from my journey and find inspiration in the challenges I faced. From a young age, I knew the road ahead wouldn't be easy. When I was only a year and a half old, I lost my father. This loss left a deep mark on my life, but it also ignited a fire within me to carve my own path. With no inheritance or connections to rely on, I knew I had to build everything from scratch. I moved around often, living with different families on your grandmother's side. Uncles and aunts took me in, each offering me a home and different lessons along the way. I learned the value of adaptability and the importance of family. Through their guidance, I became grounded in values like hard work and perseverance. Education became my anchor. It gave me hope and a clear vision of the future I wanted ...

Open Letter to My Future Wife.

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Hello, My Future Wife. Whether you are reading this before you meet me, or stumble upon it after, I want you to know a few things. The reason I am writing this today is because I can’t stop thinking about you, and I can’t stop myself from imagining how happy we will be. Let this letter be a promise to you that I will do my best to be  the man I want to be for you. I may not yet know all of the difficulties that come with a lifetime commitment, but I have enough relationship experience to know what I want and how I picture my life with the person I will commit. Those around me are a continuous source of education and inspiration on how I want our relationship to be. So here and today, I vow to try my best to do the following: I promise to do my best to make you beam daily, so count on many surprises. Your smile will be my priority. I get weak knees when anybody smiles, so just imagine the effort I will make to be the source of yours. I promise I will always look at you with the same...